Showing posts with label QUIET PLACE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label QUIET PLACE. Show all posts

Sunday, January 2, 2022

THE SOLITUDE OF SILENCE

Price Lake, Blue Ridge Parkway, NC

“Listen to silence.  It has so much to say.” –Rumi

I was listening to the PBS program On Being with Krista Tippett this morning and she was having a discussion with a man who has apparently dedicated his life to recording the quiet sounds of nature away from the noise of modern life.  I’ve also observed that there can be moments of “silence” on a moonlit winter’s night when the winds are so silent that one can actually experience the gentle sound of a snowfall.  I’ve stood at the water’s edge of a mirrored lake just off the Blue Ridge Parkway at sunrise and experienced the silence of being still and knowing God.  The glorious silence was only interrupted by a bird’s song echoing across the water as it was stirred awake by the sun’s warmth.  I’ve recorded short video clips from my own backyard deck of bird songs at daybreak that are very conducive to calming the chatter of the ego mind.

The man noted that he has recorded the songs of many birds out in nature and concluded that the sweet spot of human hearing coincides with the range of their singing.  He believes that our hearing evolved over the millennia to be acutely aware of bird songs because foraging humans found those areas to be compatible with survival.  He also noted that the winds, especially those singing in the pines, have a higher range with shorter needles and a lower range if they are longer.  It makes intuitive sense that our environment and subtleties such as this can have a positive subliminal influence on our wellbeing.

Mindfulness teachers suggest that even if we cannot actually be out in nature away from the busyness of life, we can discern and go to a favorite “quiet place” in our mind.  I have at least two specific places in Colorado.  The first is at the base of a mountain lake in Maroon Bells National Park outside Aspen.  The other is sitting on a boulder among the pine trees as the Bernoulli-effect breezes slice through the pine needles in the canyons of Mesa Verde National Park.

Ralph Waldo Emerson encourages us to “be silent, that we may hear the whispers of the gods.”  Mozart understood that “the music is not in the notes, but the silence between.”  And the naturalist Henry David Thoreau observed that “I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude.  We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers.”  

While extroverts often dislike being alone and introverts tend to prefer it, people do need a support network and social connections, while taking time for yourself outside in nature can be very healthful.  That’s something to ponder in this unprecedented period of pandemic masking, lockdowns, quarantines, Zooming and Facetime! 

 

Tuesday, July 30, 2019

BLUE MIND

Price Lake, Blue Ridge Parkway, NC


Referring to his book Blue Mind, Marine biologist Wallace Nichols tells USA Today that “The term ‘blue mind’ describes the mildly meditative state we fall into when near, in, on or under water.  It’s the antidote to what we refer to as ‘red mind,’ which is the anxious, over-connected and over-stimulated state that defines the new normal of modern life.”  He notes that research has shown that being near blue water can enhance our mental health and help us achieve “an elevated and sustained happiness.”

And what’s the genesis of our red mind which conjures up images of bulging neck veins and blood vessels about to burst?  Neil Pasricha posits in the opening of his international bestseller, The Happiness Equation, “because life was mostly short, brutal, and highly competitive over the two hundred thousand years our species has existed on this planet.  And our brains are trained for this short, brutal, and highly competitive world.”

So, what’s his antidote?  Pasricha includes one of my all-time favorite observations in life from Viktor Frankl after surviving the horrors of a Nazi concentration camp; “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”  I’ve often written that there are many experiences in life that are beyond our control—with one exception—how we respond!  Pasricha states that if he knew everything about you “I could only predict about 10% of your happiness.  The remaining amount is not determined by your external world but by the way your brain processes it.”

I’ve learned over the years that one of the best responses to our chaotic culture is drawing on the ancient practice of mindful meditation.  Frankly, it’s a wonderful practice of calming your mind to achieve a peaceful and cleansing goal of reducing the daily stress of life.  Experiencing peace doesn’t mean that our lives are always joyful.  It implies that we have found the path to calming the mind in the midst of a normal hectic life.  Mindful meditation can be practiced almost anywhere if we focus on our favorite “go-to” quiet place in our mind.  Peace and relaxation can be found on vacation and day trips out into the serene beauty of nature.  All of my mindful quiet places occurred in the early morning light near the calm waters of expansive mirrored bodies of water.  

It’s truly amazing how this practice can transition the glowing Red Mind accumulated from the daily external world around us and slowly use its kaleidoscope power to morph into the calming Blue Mind that enables us to calm troubled waters and try again tomorrow.